Safety

A club is only as safe as its door.

Ours is a person reading every application, and a first meeting booked at a public venue with your name on it.

Who gets in

Every application is read by a member of the team before anyone is admitted. There is no automatic approval, no bulk intake, and no growth target that would make us loosen it. Being declined is a normal outcome.

What ARI never does

• ARI never writes as you. ARI drafts, suggests and edits; nothing is sent without you choosing to send it.
• ARI never shares your Debrief, your Blueprint, or anything you write to ARI with another member.
• ARI never books anything without a yes from both people.
• ARI never shares your contact details. The introduction happens inside COZY until you decide otherwise.

Meeting someone the first time

• First dates are booked at public venues we have a relationship with. Never a home, never an address you have not seen before.
• The reservation is in your name, and the venue knows the booking came from us.
• Tell someone where you are going. The calendar invite is shareable for exactly this reason.
• Leave whenever you want, for any reason, without explaining yourself to anyone, including us.

What we hold about you

Your Blueprint answers, who you said yes and no to, and what you write in the Debrief. That is what makes the next introduction better than the last. How long it is kept, and how to have it deleted, is covered in the privacy policy.

Make the first move a real one.